Saturday, 18 October 2025

Random thoughts on Hope - what H.C. Andersen teaches me

 

Mabel Amber from Pixabay


In a recent trip to Copenhagen, I was walking around the city with a tour guide leading a walking group. Already feeling extremely priviledged to be there and having the Sun shine on me to beat, I experienced several Aha! moments. The Danes have an amazing outlook on life, all with their clean streets and correct ways of doing things. Following rules is something very entrenched in their society. So is the distribution of wealth to all levels in their very Capitalist society. So, many of the young Danish can travel the world after High School and choose to study at the best universities of the country free of cost. They can enjoy their youth and their general genetic structure ensures that they generally live long lives.

While doing this tour with Stuart, originally not Danish, but a very Danish-influenced-by-now guide, I came across a very strong example of Hope. One of the big symbols of Denmark, the famous author Hans Christian Andersen gave me this thought. I learned that a very young 14 year-old Hans rented a room in a hotel in front of  The Royal Danish Ballet School. He nervously auditioned, but was quickly thanked for his time. When he returned to his room after, it's said that he then wrote 'The Ugly Duckling'.

Now, what can we take away from this? A rejection to a path can open another or several others. I feel in our world today we all need to believe this is possible and bring to fore the instances we hear about that represent Hope. Without Hope, all is lost or nothing is lost with Hope...


this story was submitted on https://thefigtreemagazine.squarespace.com/ on the 18th of Oct, 2025


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A story from the perspective of a teddy bear clutched by a 4-year-old girl

Pezibear from Pixabay

 



Oh no, there she goes again. All that ice-cream on Ella's fingers and around her mouth will now add to the dried up pasta from two weeks back and the mud and grass from the rainy playground yesterday. I really didn't think I would still be around, handed down from her grandmother to her mother and now to her. Like, look at me. Eyes of two different sizes and colours, no tail anymore and my ears are all chewed up and wet all the time. I'm all due for retirement, ain't I?

 It was fun to be hidden and huddled in the storage boxes with the others when each of these pretty lasses were yet to be born. We all had our parties in the wee hours of the night. Yes, Porceline doll always claims that she's the first to be around. That maybe true, considering she has no nose anymore. But, who gets the first washing and drying off and the first wet kisses when the new baby comes around. It's not her, I'll tell you that! She just sits on the high ledge in the bedroom and acts like the matron she has become, keeping an eye on me and the wooden train and the dining set. She also doesn't forget to comment and criticise each new arrival in the storage box.

Anyway, how do I get Ella's mom Bessie to notice the mess she's made of me. And does she have to drag me everywhere? To the playground, in the contraption they call a car that makes her and me sick or to her school where I stay stuffed in her school bag. When Bessie was young, I was still fit to do this job. But, I really need a holiday or a retirement package.

I know that tonight while Bessie will tuck Ella in bed and sing to her, I will be kinder in my thoughts and remember that I'm still around because I'm loved and wanted. It's fine to be around, I say. Look at cute Ella, I can do that much for her. Yes, I can. 

 Ouch, she doesn't have to press my tummy so hard. I want out :(

This is in response to a prompt from www.wordcraft-collective.eu written on the 18th of Oct, 2025

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Soraya Houari - so young but raring to go

 

Brussels, Aug 2025Top post on Blogchatter


You will probably be as amazed as I was when I realised that both the Houari sisters were athletes. I recently featured 18yr old Kayla, the shot-put sports girl. She chose this sport after trying out several others. However, Kayla's 16yr old younger sister Soraya Houari very quickly came to the conclusion that she liked the explosiveness of the 60m sprint and the hurdles.


From when she was 6 till about 11yrs old, Soraya was busy with gymnastic competitions. She used to be practicing around 12h/week. She remembers that the pressure in that sport was just too much. She found herself watching her sister train at the Forest Athletic Club and decided to try that out to be with her friends and keep herself busy moving. So at 10yrs, she started Athletics. She did it along with her gymnastics as a hobby with Gilbert, her sister's coach.




Brussels, Aug 2025



When her family shifted to Tubize, outside Brussels, she joined the Club at Nivelles and started at the School of Athletics. Her coach Jean-Claude was passionate about what he did and could quickly see who had good potential and for which sport. She started going to train once a week and soon discovered that she was talented at sprinting and increased her sessions to 3 times a week. Her coach knew how to motivate her by finding the right words of encouragement. She found herself good at all 5 compulsory disciplines of the 60m, hurdles, javelin, shot-put and the 1000m. Of all the disciplines she found that her capacity and her talent to run the 1km was not the best. So, as she came to the level of Cadet (title of an athlete of 13-14yrs), she stuck mainly to what she was good at. The 60m sprint and the hurdles. I had no idea that depending on the season the sprint has a different distance. When we usually see these fast races on TV, we see the 100m race. But in fact it's 100m in the summer and 60m in the Winter.




Brussels, Aug 2025



Soraya started participating in Belgian Championships and training 4-5 times a week. I must take a moment and salute Soraya and Kayla's parents who dropped them off and picked them at these multiple trainings several times a week. Each car journey was at least 20 mins away and I'm boggled by multiplying their own commutes daily to and from work and then getting the two girls to different trainings several times a week. Let's also remember that Belgium is usually dark in the evenings for several months of the year and training and competitions happen the whole year. Soraya says that on top of that her parents never made them feel any sort of pressure. If they were enjoying it, the parents were there for them. 




Liege, Aug 2024




She soon realised that in order to be good at the sprint and hurdles, she would need to walk a difficult path full of consistency, training & learning technical tricks. For the start of these races for example, the muscle work and sprint resistance are essential. Her usual training involves running uphill 200m. This way when you actually race, running 100m is less than the physical effort that you're used to. Soraya constantly feels her mind and determination are getting stronger as she needs to be resilient and not give up. The results make her proud and her body feels tired from actual effort which she highly appreciates.



Liege, Aug 2024


Every training day is important according to my young interlocutor. Every Thursday is her 'Start' or 'Depart' training working on the starting blocks. When I ask her what  athletes think of when they are waiting for the gun to go off, she says that she thinks of really wanting to give it her best and wants to succeed. Her body follows suit with all the training ingrained in its system. Of pushing herself in the block with maximum speed. When she is sprinting, she remembers to push into the floor and lift her knees as high as possible. When I talk about admiring how the sprinters' and runners' feet reach their butts while they run allowing for a nearly wheel-like motion, she seems to agree. That smile and those eyes agree with me. 






Soraya was on National TV this year as she participated in the Van Damme memorial athletic championship in Brussels that is held every September. She was part of a preliminary program that showcased the best young athletes of Belgium in an international setting. 8 teams of the fastest 4x100m runners were chosen amongst all of the clubs in Belgium. Her team participated and were the 6th in this huge contest. Wearing the BIB of her local club, standing in lane 1 and warming up and watching all the big names in international athletics was indeed a great experience for her and her teammates. The internal transition from the warm up zones to the stadium to actually participate brought with it a lot of exciting stress and buildup. I see this as a precursor and a glimpse into her potential future sphere. We shall hear more about Soraya for sure. Her coach Noel Leveque also surely feels the same.



Perwez, April 2025



She is now moving from Scolaire 1 to Scolaire 2 which is a category of sports training pertaining to age. She ended her season by participating in the LBFA Championships in the end of August unfortunately with an injury. She has the 7th spot in the best 8 runners in 100m hurdles in the French Speaking section of Belgian Athletics




Braine l'Alleud, May 2025


When I ask her if she gets a feeling of being compared to her older sister Kayla, she says that since their sports are finally different, it's not something that has happened to her. There is nearly nothing in common except the hard work they both put in. She continues that her best friends are all in the sport because they go on sport's trips together during vacations travelling to Spain or France. They all face the same challenges and have the same passion and interest for sports. So sports people generally have an understanding of what it takes to reach where they have and in general the movement is to lift each other up by keeping a healthy level of competition. 



Louvain la neuve, 2023



On the other hand, even though she has great friends at school, she thinks that those friends are more the kinds that come together due to a common style or interest in music. It's harder for someone who doesn't practice sports like her to understand why she would give up fun activities to do her training. It was a very interesting discussion in which Soraya pointed out that our sports friends can be very different from us and the training and participation is the common factor that brings us closer. Even if everyone's personalities are very different, the barrier gets dropped because of the common links of discipline and hard work. On the field it's just the person and the activity they're engaged in. There are people of all ages in her club and she could interact as easily with someone who's 30 and someone who is 12 in a few minutes. 






Athletics is a year-round activity. Soraya says that when you don't do well in a training or competition even if you feel great, it really affects you mentally. But, she still thinks she wouldn't be the sunshine she is if she didn't train. She would find it hard to study well. She wouldn't prioritize her time as well as she does now. She wouldn't know what consistency teaches and how to have a never-give-up attitude. Yes, like her sister she cannot go out at night for a sleepover at a friend's place. Yes, she needs to make a good and healthy food choice even if she gets back home at 9pm after training and a whole day of school before that. She accepts all that. It's her way of life now, she says. Without training, she talks of how it feels strange. As she waits for her injury to heal, she finds this a perfect moment to think about the ups and downs of competition. Because that's what high level sports gives you. A rollercoaster of ups and downs including victories and losses. A series of emotions to be held, controlled and conquered. Young Soraya loves exactly that, the series of achievements and lessons learnt like these that make her appreciate and savour her greatest moments even more. 


Forest, 2021


Nivelles, Feb 2025


#Belgianathletics #trackandfield #athlete #sprints #hurdles #youngathlete #hopeforBelgium #vandammememorial2025 #vandammememorial #purejoyofsports #trainingeveryday #consistencyforresults #injuries 


Read about Soraya's sister Kayla's athletic journey here 

Light on her feet carrying the weight of her dreams - Kayla Houari


ou lisez l'histoire de Kayla en français ici 

Légère sur ses appuis, portant le poids de ses rêves – Kayla Houari


or read Sebastien's amazing story here 

An XXXL event for an Ironman and Super Triathlete - Sebastien Morineau


or read Tina De Vit's story here 


Friday, 17 October 2025

Random thoughts on Hope and keeping the Faith - a Pearl

Weinstock on Pixabay.com

 

A pearl in the depths of the ocean is as beautiful as the one you see and admire in a string of pearls.

The one in its oyster hasn't been picked, admired and valued. That doesn't reduce or take anything away from its beauty. In the same way, you may find yourself stuck, unnoticed and in a difficult patch of life.

Keep shining anyway, keeping being you anyway. You're too precious. You're precious too!


#stringofpearls #knowingonesworth #ignorethenaysayers #beautifulanyway #precious #keepthefaithalive


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Tuesday, 7 October 2025

Légère sur ses appuis, portant le poids de ses rêves – Kayla Houari

 


L’inspiration peut se trouver partout et sous n’importe quelle forme. Jusqu’à présent, j’ai écrit sur des personnes ayant vécu plusieurs décennies sur cette terre et qui nous motivent par leur détermination et leur énergie. Mais aujourd’hui, mon héroïne a l’âge de ma fille. En fait, elle était même dans la même classe que ma fille à la maternelle. Je n’ai pas vu le moment où elle est devenue la formidable athlète qu’elle est en train de devenir. Le temps m’a joué des tours, tout comme lorsque je réalise que mes propres filles sont maintenant adultes.


Voici Kayla Houari, 18 ans, aujourd’hui athlète de lancer du poids et espoir belge dans le monde de l’athlétisme. Tout a commencé lorsque Kayla avait 9 ans. Elle a participé à une course et a tellement aimé les sensations qu’elle a ressenties qu’elle a voulu se lancer immédiatement dans l’athlétisme. L’équipe locale d’athlétisme de Forest, un quartier de

Bruxelles, organisait une compétition ouverte. Elle a couru le 1000 m et le 60 m. Kayla a adoré être avec les autres enfants participants, et c’est ce qui l’a accrochée. Elle faisait déjà de la natation et de la gymnastique, mais elle préférait cette atmosphère de groupe qu’elle retrouvait sur le terrain. Elle a donc demandé à ses parents de l’inscrire dans un club.







En Belgique, les jeunes athlètes commencent toujours par pratiquer toutes les disciplines ; on ne peut pas en choisir une seule au départ. Dans son club, elle a eu un entraîneur formidable, Gilbert, qui repérait les enfants ayant un grand potentiel global. Il a formé un petit groupe de quatre filles qu’il estimait prometteuses. Elles montaient souvent sur le podium et étaient généralement très fortes. Elles se donnaient à fond, et il portait donc une attention particulière à ce groupe de jeunes athlètes en devenir. Ensemble, elles formaient une équipe de relais et participaient à différentes compétitions nationales, notamment au célèbre Challenge Éric de Meu, une étape emblématique pour tout jeune athlète. Ce challenge comprend cinq disciplines – javelot, lancer du poids, course de 60 m, saut en hauteur et 1000 m – un peu comme un pentathlon, avec un système de points. Le participant qui cumule le plus de points remporte le challenge. Kayla s’y est retrouvée parmi les meilleures de Belgique et montait presque toujours sur le podium dans sa catégorie d’âge.








Vers 12-13 ans, les quatre filles participaient encore ensemble. Elles faisaient de la natation, des haies, de l’heptathlon et du sprint. En heptathlon, il faut s’entraîner pour sept disciplines différentes. En général, on en pratique une par jour, ce qui signifie sept jours d’entraînement. Ce type de préparation est difficile à concilier avec un emploi du temps scolaire et d’autres activités. Kayla a continué ainsi pendant près d’un an, puis a décidé de se concentrer sur quelques disciplines afin d’y consacrer plus de temps et de perfectionner sa technique.




C’est à cette période que Kayla et sa famille ont quitté Bruxelles pour s’installer à Tubize, en Wallonie. Elle a rejoint le Club d’athlétisme de Nivelles, où elle a commencé par l’heptathlon avant de se spécialiser dans le lancer du poids et les haies.






Ces deux disciplines demandent à la fois une grande puissance explosive et une technique

précise. Elle s’entraînait alors quatre fois par semaine, deux fois pour chaque discipline. À cette époque, Kayla excellait dans les haies et se débrouillait plutôt bien au lancer du poids. Pendant un an, elle a continué à s’entraîner et à participer à de nombreuses compétitions. L’entraînement comprenait des exercices de force et de préparation physique (sauts, vitesse, etc.). Finalement, elle a choisi le lancer du poids comme discipline principale, car elle avait du

mal à maintenir le poids idéal pour les haies, une épreuve qui demande beaucoup de légèreté

et d’agilité. Une fois sa décision prise, elle a trouvé un entraîneur disponible pour deux séances d’entraînement par semaine. Elle a suivi ce rythme pendant environ deux ans. Elle a progressé rapidement, complétant ses séances par de la course et de la musculation. À ce stade, elle occupait la 4e place du classement belge.



White Star -Woluwe - 14ans


En janvier 2025, Kayla envisageait de partir aux États-Unis grâce à une bourse sportive, en espérant que ses résultats en athlétisme viendraient renforcer ses bons résultats scolaires.

Cependant, avec seulement deux entraînements hebdomadaires, il était difficile de progresser davantage. Le destin a voulu qu’elle rencontre son entraîneur actuel, Medhy, avec qui elle s’entraîne désormais à Mons. Il lui a permis de continuer à s’entraîner avec son ancien coach tout en venant chez lui les autres jours. Kayla a jonglé entre les deux pendant deux mois, de janvier à mars. Elle a vu ses performances s’améliorer, a adopté une alimentation plus saine, et tout cela en pleine année de terminale ! Travailler avec deux entraîneurs ne pouvait pas durer éternellement, et Kayla a finalement choisi de s’entraîner cinq jours par semaine avec Medhy, dès qu’il a été disponible. Ses jours de repos sont uniquement le mardi et le dimanche. Elle n’a pas d’autre soirée libre. D’ailleurs, c’est un mardi qu’a eu lieu cette interview, pour ne pas perturber son entraînement. On pourrait penser qu’avec un emploi du temps aussi chargé, Kayla suit des études légères, mais pas du tout : elle est en première année de droit et prend chaque aspect de sa vie très au sérieux. Elle participe à des compétitions et à divers championnats tous les week-ends.






Ses participations principales :

Haies : 2 Championnats de Belgique (1 en salle et 1 en plein air) – 12e sur 32 en 2023.


Lancer du poids : 7 Championnats de Belgique – elle se classe généralement 5e sur 16,

avec 2 championnats par an (indoor et outdoor).


En août-septembre 2025, elle a terminé 4e sur 16 toutes catégories confondues (plus de 18

ans).



Lors d’un meeting international à Nivelles en 2024, Kayla a eu la chance de voir et rencontrer de grandes championnes comme Elena Defrère (Allemagne) et Nafissatou Thiam, la grande championne olympique belge.






Quand je demande à Kayla, 18 ans, quelles leçons elle tire de toutes ces années de sport, elle répond qu’elle a appris à s’entraîner, dormir et manger en pensant à son sport et à ses objectifs. Le sport rythme sa vie : elle doit anticiper ses études, ne jamais être en retard, et surtout, ne jamais procrastiner.



avec coach Medhy




Elle a connu des moments difficiles plus jeune, notamment lorsqu’elle devait choisir entre ses

deux sports préférés. En voulant trop bien faire en haies, elle a commencé à développer une

anorexie. Heureusement, elle a su réagir à temps et sortir de ce mode de vie malsain.



Schaerbeek-meeting des lancers -16ans










Schaerbeek -championnat francophone d'heptathlon- 16ans




Championnat francophone lancer du poids - Louvain la Neuve


Schaerbeek - meeting des lancers - 18ans



Parfois, elle admet que pratiquer autant de sports et vouloir constamment atteindre le plus haut niveau de son potentiel sportif lui donne parfois l’impression d’avoir manqué son adolescence. Même aujourd’hui, elle ne sort pas le soir et ne se détend pas comme beaucoup de ses camarades. Renoncer à des concerts comme celui de Sexion d’Assaut — une occasion unique pour une adolescente belge — a été un choix qu’elle a dû faire à cause d’une compétition le lendemain. Elle a appris que ce qu’elle considérait comme un sacrifice n’en est pas vraiment un. La joie qu’elle ressent à travers ses efforts constants et sa détermination à donner le meilleur d’elle-même ne peut être ni mesurée ni touchée. Bien sûr, certains jours, elle a une médaille pour témoigner de son travail, mais encore mieux : elle sait qu’à chaque fois qu’elle se consacre pleinement à sa passion, elle se rapproche un peu plus de la connaissance de soi, de la confiance en soi, de la fierté et de l’amour de soi.


Une véritable victoire dans tous les cas !



1ere compétition de sa vie - Forest - 9ans


l'article a été traduit par Kayla Houari 

#athlétisme #lancerdupoids #athlète #entraînement #BelgianAthletics #Belgique #fitness #motivation
#shotput #trackandfield

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