Saturday, 12 July 2025

Icecream incidents- The King Cone

Ixelles, Brussels



In my childhood, there were several incidents that became epic stories for us as a family. You may have already realised this as a regular reader. This one incident is super funny and at the same time, so real still that I can describe it even though I wasn't present when it happened. 


In the nineties, brands were a few in India and any food outside of home food was considered a luxury in our household. My sister however was a hardworking young woman. She was ambitious and also good at studies. She funded her own education by taking up all the teaching jobs she could in her free time. So, obviously, she had cash to spend on herself and on small luxuries too. 

It was the time when an ice cream had become 'viral' on national television. It was all over the ads and in the shops around our home. The newly introduced cone ice cream was called 'King Cone'. It was truly the King because it had chocolate pieces sprinkled on the top, both vanilla and chocolate flavours in one cone and none of us had ever eaten such a treat. None of us had till then had access to a cone where you peel off the paper top, rip off the side and have it swirl downwards resembling in some way a dancer's skirt. All this was a new experience that our idiot box conveyed to our hungry, hopeful and greedy minds and eyes.

So imagine the bliss my sister was in when she actually was outside a store having just purchased this marvelous delight. She was with her friend and they both had a Kingcone ice cream in hand. My sister had just about started to enjoy her second bite and was breaking out into a huge smile, when our brother, just younger to her, passed by on his motorbike. Never the one to miss a golden opportunity, he did a quick U turn and was right in front of her and her prized possession. Damn!

Probably he had the money to buy himself a cone himself, but, of course the fun would be to get a free bite off  a free ice cream. So our brother pleaded with my sister and she ignored him. She tried to savour the melting delicacy without being affected by him. Obviously this was not an easy task. From tongue to mouth to hand, every movement she made had him implore her for a piece. She was highly frustrated. She asked him to go away, he wouldn't. She asked him to not look, he kept at it. He was her annoying little brother after all.

Finally, she couldn't bear it anymore. When she was nearly at the bottom, with about three or four centimetres of cone remaining, she handed him the cone. In her head, what he was getting was nothing big. She would have preferred to eat that bit too, but he had won. She didn't have it in her to eat it all after all the pleading he had kept at. She was just convincing herself how she had been smart to not give up her ice cream earlier when he, popped the remaining cone into his mouth and crunched into something. She heard the crunch and saw his eyes widen with the happy surprise. He had the tiny bit of solid chocolate which was hidden at the bottom. She didn't know the cone had that in the end and he smiled a big smile like he had won the lottery. He quickly got onto his bike and started to ride away while thanking her. She felt cheated and frustrated. The bite he had taken left a bitter taste in her mouth.

 

Our children growing up - Proud moments

 

Beautiful home in Brussels

When my elder daughter was sixteen, one evening, we were at home together. She looked at me and said, "You know Maman, I just realised something. I know today that at any time, anywhere in the world where I may be, if I doubt myself, all I need to do is close my eyes and remember you and Papa. I know that my biggest supporters believe implicitly in me and that will always boost my confidence. I'll never feel alone."



Looking into my young girl's eyes, I saw the woman-to-be shine through in this young lady. All her ambition and her dreams beaming through those lovely mirrors to her soul. I felt grateful, loved, accomplished and so very happy. Her stepping stones to life had been placed right. The declaration she had just made showed me that beyond any iota of doubt. With tears in my eyes, I saw my baby, my little one, step one step away from me.

Wednesday, 9 July 2025

Women's Confession - Tina and the cake

 

Ceramic flower vases made by Artist Marie- Therese Duplicy


He smiled as he opened the front door and saw her carrying a box. He knew that it contained a cake that she had got made especially for him. They had broken up a few days ago but he guessed since she had ordered the cake before the breakup, it made sense that she had brought it to him nevertheless.


As he looked at her pretty face at the doorstep, he heard his children inside his house. It was their week with him. He'd told her previously that he didn't think their relationship could go any further. He'd come up with the reasoning that he was still obsessed with his ex. He was obsessed to the point that he thought of her while spending time with this kind woman. Whether it was his heart or his ego, he didn't know, but it was difficult to stop obsessing. 

In the last eight months, he'd really started appreciating Tina, whom he had even declared his love to several times. In fact, he was the one who'd pushed for a relationship and pursued her. But now that the relationship was stable and set, he found himself going back to the thoughts of obsession he'd managed to push away. The woman he called an ex was just a friend who he wanted to have in his life by his side, but she didn't see things that way. She'd pushed him away and he was now back to thinking about her. 

Now, on his birthday, he stood at the door and accepted the box with the cake. He asked Tina to wait at the door and came back with some stuff in his hand. She looked at the bag in his hand and saw that it contained her slippers and toothbrush. She looked at his face and swallowed the whoosh of anger that surged upwards. She said goodbye and walked away. Forever.

Sam Forgiveness- Instagram series- uploaded on 8th July 2025